Twenty-fourth Sunday in Ordinary Time
Lectionary: 130
L-Erbgħa u Għoxrin Ħadd taż-Żmien ta’ Matul is-Sena
Reading 1 SIRAK 27:30—28:7
Wrath and anger are hateful things, yet the sinner hugs them tight. The vengeful will suffer the LORD’s vengeance, for he remembers their sins in detail. Forgive your neighbor’s injustice; then when you pray, your own sins will be forgiven. Could anyone nourish anger against another and expect healing from the LORD? Could anyone refuse mercy to another like himself, can he seek pardon for his own sins? If one who is but flesh cherishes wrath, who will forgive his sins? Remember your last days, set enmity aside; remember death and decay, and cease from sin! Think of the commandments, hate not your neighbour; remember the Most High’s covenant, and overlook faults.
Qari I mill-Ktieb ta’ Bin Sirak 27, 30 – 28, 7
Għadab u qilla, dawn ukoll ta’ min jistmerrhom, u l-bniedem midneb mimli bihom. Min ifittex jitħallas b’idejh, isib ħlasu mingħand il-Mulej, li jifli sewwa dnubietu. Aħfer il-proxxmu dnubietu, u mbagħad titlob u dnubietek jinħafrulek. Bniedem irawwem għadab għal ieħor, u mbagħad se jfittex fejqan mingħand il-Mulej? Minn bniedem bħalu m’għandux ħniena, u mbagħad se jitlob għal dnubietu? Jekk bniedem jibqa’ mgħaddab, min se jpattilu għal dnubietu? Ftakar fl-aħħar ta’ ħajtek, u ieqaf mill-mibegħda; ftakar fit-taħsir u l-mewt, u oqgħod għall-kmandamenti. Ftakar fil-kmandamenti u tobgħodx il-proxxmu; ftakar fil-patt tal-Għoli u agħlaq għajnejk għall-offiża. Il-Kelma tal-Mulej
Responsorial Psalm PSALM 103:1-2, 3-4, 9-10, 11-12
Bless the LORD, O my soul; and all my being, bless his holy name. Bless the LORD, O my soul, and forget not all his benefits.R. The Lord is kind and merciful, slow to anger, and rich in compassion.
He pardons all your iniquities, heals all your ills. He redeems your life from destruction, crowns you with kindness and compassion. R. The Lord is kind and merciful, slow to anger, and rich in compassion.
He will not always chide, nor does he keep his wrath forever. Not according to our sins does he deal with us, nor does he requite us according to our crimes.R. The Lord is kind and merciful, slow to anger, and rich in compassion.
For as the heavens are high above the earth, so surpassing is his kindness toward those who fear him. As far as the east is from the west, so far has he put our transgressions from us. R. The Lord is kind and merciful, slow to anger, and rich in compassion.
Salm Responsorjali Salm 102 (103), 1-2.3-4.9-10.11-12
R/. (8): Ħanin u twajjeb il-Mulej
Bierek, ruħ tiegħi, il-Mulej! B’qalbi kollha nbierek l-isem qaddis tiegħu. Bierek, ruħ tiegħi, il-Mulej, u la tinsiex il-ġid kollu li għamel miegħek. R/.
Hu jaħfer dnubietek kollha; ifejjaq il-mard tiegħek kollu;jifdi lil ħajtek mill-qabar; iħaddnek bit-tjieba u l-ħniena. R/.
Ma joqgħodx jitlewwem magħna, u anqas jinkorla għal dejjem. Ma mexiex magħna skond ma ħaqqhom ħtijietna; ma ħallasniex skond ma ħaqqha ħżunitna. R/.
Daqskemm huma s-smewwiet ’il fuq mill-art, hekk hi kbira tjubitu ma’ min jibża’ minnu; daqs kemm hu mbiegħed il-Lvant mill-Punent, hekk hu jbiegħed minna ħtijietna. R/.
Reading 2 ROMANS 14:7-9
Brothers and sisters: None of us lives for oneself, and no one dies for oneself. For if we live, we live for the Lord, and if we die, we die for the Lord; so then, whether we live or die, we are the Lord’s. For this is why Christ died and came to life, that he might be Lord of both the dead and the living.
Qari II mill-Ittra lir-Rumani 14, 7-9
Ħuti, ħadd minna ma jgħix għalih innifsu, u ħadd ma jmut għalih innifsu. Jekk ngħixu, ngħixu għall-Mulej; jekk immutu, immutu għall-Mulej. Sew jekk ngħixu, mela, sew jekk immutu, aħna tal-Mulej. Kristu għalhekk miet u rxoxta, biex ikun Sid kemm tal-ħajjin u kemm tal-mejtin. Il-Kelma tal-Mulej
Gospel MATTHEW 18:21-35
Peter approached Jesus and asked him, “Lord, if my brother sins against me, how often must I forgive? As many as seven times?” Jesus answered, “I say to you, not seven times but seventy-seven times. That is why the kingdom of heaven may be likened to a king who decided to settle accounts with his servants. When he began the accounting, a debtor was brought before him who owed him a huge amount. Since he had no way of paying it back, his master ordered him to be sold, along with his wife, his children, and all his property, in payment of the debt. At that, the servant fell down, did him homage, and said, ‘Be patient with me, and I will pay you back in full.’ Moved with compassion the master of that servant let him go and forgave him the loan. When that servant had left, he found one of his fellow servants who owed him a much smaller amount. He seized him and started to choke him, demanding, ‘Pay back what you owe.’ Falling to his knees, his fellow servant begged him, ‘Be patient with me, and I will pay you back.’ But he refused. Instead, he had the fellow servant put in prison until he paid back the debt. Now when his fellow servants saw what had happened, they were deeply disturbed, and went to their master and reported the whole affair. His master summoned him and said to him, ‘You wicked servant! I forgave you your entire debt because you begged me to. Should you not have had pity on your fellow servant, as I had pity on you?’ Then in anger his master handed him over to the torturers until he should pay back the whole debt. So will my heavenly Father do to you, unless each of you forgives your brother from your heart.”
Evanġelju Qari skond San Mattew 18, 21-35
F’dak iż-żmien, Pietru resaq lejn Ġesù u qallu: “Mulej, xi kemm-il darba jrid jonqosni ħija biex jiena naħfirlu? Sa seba’ darbiet?”. Wieġbu Ġesù: “Ma ngħidlekx sa seba’ darbiet, imma sa sebgħa u sebgħin darba. Għalhekk is-Saltna tas-Smewwiet nistgħu nxebbhuha ma’ wieħed sultan, li ried jagħmel il-kontijiet mal-qaddejja tiegħu. Kif beda jagħmel dan, ħadulu quddiemu wieħed li kellu jagħtih għaxart elef talent. Billi ma kellux minn fejn irroddhomlu, is-sinjur ordna li jinbiegħu hu, martu, uliedu u kull ma kellu, ħalli b’hekk jitħallas id-dejn. Imma l-qaddej inxteħet quddiemu jitolbu u jgħidlu: “Sinjur, stabar ftit bija, kollox irroddlok”. Is-sinjur ġietu ħasra minn dak il-qaddej, bagħtu u ħafirlu dejnu. Mela dak il-qaddej joħroġ, u jiltaqa’ ma’ wieħed minn sħabu, li kellu jagħtih mitt dinar; qabdu minn għonqu u beda jagħfsu. “Ħallas dejnek,” qallu. Il-qaddej sieħbu nxteħet quddiemu jitolbu bil-ħniena u jgħidlu: “Stabar ftit bija u rroddlok”. Imma dak ma riedx jaf, mar u xeħtu l-ħabs sa ma jrodd kull ma kellu jagħtih.Sħabu l-qaddejja raw il-ġrajja kollha u sewdu qalbhom ħafna; marru għand is-sinjur tagħhom u tarrfulu kull ma kien ġara. Imbagħad is-sinjur bagħat għalih u qallu: “Ja qaddej ħażin, meta jiena ħfirtlek dak id-dejn kollu wara li tlabtni bil-ħniena, ma kienx imissek int ukoll tħenn għal sieħbek kif ħennejt jien għalik?”. U saħan bl-aħrax is-sinjur għalih, u tah f’idejn min jaħqru sa ma jrodd kull ma kellu jagħti. Hekk jagħmel lilkom Missieri li hu fis-Smewwiet jekk ma taħfrux lil xulxin minn qalbkom”. Il-Kelma tal-Mulej
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Why Forgive?
In his commentary on this Sunday’s readings, Capuchin Father Raniero Cantalamessa, the preacher of the Pontifical Household, answers the question of how much forgiveness is too much.
To forgive is something serious, humanly difficult, if not impossible. One must not speak about it lightly, without realizing what one asks of the offended person when one requests him to forgive. Along with the command to forgive, man must also be given a reason to do so.
It is what Jesus did with the parable of the king and his two servants. The parable makes clear why one must forgive: because God has forgiven us in the past and continues to forgive us!
He cancels a debt of ours that is infinitely greater than the one a fellow human being might have with us. The difference between the debt owed the king (ten thousand talents) and that owed the colleague (one hundred denarii) is equal at the present time to 3 million euros and a few cents ($3.7 million)!
Saint Paul could say: “as the Lord has forgiven you, so you also must forgive” (Colossians 3:13). The Old Testament law, “an eye for an eye, and a tooth for a tooth,” has been surmounted. The criterion no longer is: “Do to someone what he has done to you”; but, “What God has done to you, you do to the other.” Jesus has not limited himself, however, to order us to forgive, but did so first himself. While he was being nailed to the cross he prayed saying: “Father, forgive them; for they know not what they do!” (Luke 23:34). This is what distinguishes the Christian faith from any other religion.
Buddha also left his own a maxim: “It is not with resentment that resentment is placated; it is with non-resentment that resentment is mitigated.” But Christ does not limit himself to point out the path of perfection; he gives the strength to follow it. He does not just command us to do, but acts with us. Grace consists in this. Christian forgiveness goes beyond non-violence and non-resentment.
Someone might object: does not to forgive seventy times seven mean to encourage injustice and to give a green light to abuse? No. Christian forgiveness does not exclude that, in certain cases, you might also have to denounce a person and take them to court, especially when what is at stake are the interests and also the good of others. To give an example close to us: Christian forgiveness has not prevented the widows of some of the victims of terror or the mafia to pursue truth and justice with tenacity in regard to their husbands’ death.
However, there are not only great acts of forgiveness but also daily acts of forgiveness, in the life of a couple, at work, between relatives, friends, colleagues and acquaintances. What can one do when one discovers that he has been betrayed by his own spouse? Forgive or separate? It is an extremely delicate question; no law can be imposed from outside. The individual must discover within him what to do.
But I can say one thing. I have known cases in which the offended party has found in the love for the other, and in the help that comes from prayer, the strength to forgive the one who erred, but was sincerely repentant. The marriage was re-born as from the ashes; it had a sort of new beginning. Of course, no one can expect that this could happen in a couple’s life “seventy times seven.”
We must be alert so as not to fall into a trap. There is a risk also in forgiveness. It consists of the mentality of those who think that they always have something to forgive others — the danger of believing that one is always a creditor of forgiveness and never a debtor.
If we reflect well, however, many times, when we are about to say: “I forgive you!”, we would do better to change our attitude and words and say to the person before us: “Forgive me!” We would then realize that we also have something that the other must forgive. In fact, even more important than forgiving is the humility to ask for forgiveness. [Italian original published in Famiglia Cristiana. Translation by ZENIT]
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